Counselling is a
‘talking therapy’ which happens when a counsellor sees a client in a private and
confidential setting to explore a difficulty the client is having, distress he
or she might be experiencing or a sense of dissatisfaction with life. This may
include feelings of anxiety, depression, trauma or the loss of meaning and
purpose. By listening attentively and patiently the counsellor can begin to
perceive the difficulties from the client's point of view and help them to see
things more clearly, possibly from a different perspective.
Counselling is a
way of enabling choice or change or of reducing confusion. It does not involve
giving advice or directing a client to take a particular course of action. In
counselling sessions, clients can explore various aspects of their life and
feelings, talking about them freely and openly in a way that is rarely possible
with friends or family. Bottled up feelings such as anger, anxiety, grief and
embarrassment can become very intense and counselling offers an opportunity to
explore them, with the possibility of making them easier to understand.
Counsellors will encourage the expression of feelings and, as a result of their
training, they will be able to accept and reflect the problems of clients
without becoming burdened by them.
The British
Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
www.bacp.co.uk
WPF Therapy
www.wpf.org.uk